THE MEANING OF LOVE (lofe).

           
All relationships start from a point of attraction or interest. The relationship between God and man started when God created man with dust with expectations that man will take care of what He had created. This also happens in a relationship between man and wife. Men enters into a relationship with expectations such as; get loved, get care in terms of cooking and cloth cleaning among many others sex. Women on the other hand enters into a relationship with expectations like get affection/love, protection and belonging among others. Despite the expectations, a number of things must be observed in order to keep a healthy relationship.
1.) Effective communication
This is a way of expression or pass information. I can term this as a pillar of a strong bond between two lovers. We see God keep in contact with man at the garden and after sinning of man the barrier of reunion was communication. No matter how offended you might be try to keep in contact with your partner.
2.) Openness.
This is keeping in light all things. At times you can be on the wrong and because you don't want to offed your partner you tend to lie, this is totally wrong. Try as much as possible to admit your mistake apologize and don't repeat it. Keeping secret can be harm than do good as when your partner will find out the trust s/he had accorded you will begin to decrease. Do not lie of where about for this can course an alarm of your faithfulness.
3.) Love.
This is the first pillar of strong relationship. The good book tells us that love covers a multitude of sins. When you accord your partner sincere love then you find no mistakes in him/her that's why they say love is blind. This also does not say that mistakes seen should not be collected No! But remember to choose words that are not offensive so that your partner will not see you critical.
4.) Forgiveness.
This is mental, emotional and spiritual process of not demanding punishment for a perceived offence. Resentment, anger and retaliation are more natural and easier options to take when hurt. Forgiveness is not natural, it require sacrifice to effect. God sacrificed His only son to die so that he can suffer the punishment we could have suffered.
5.) Respect.
This is a positive feeling of esteem for a person. Specific action and conduct can be used to show regard for the one respected. Kind words also be used to earn and show respect. Mostly people watch on their social status. Your conduct in public can build or destroy your relationship. On this, don't let others to run your relationship not all may be happy with what you do or Status of your relationship.
And in conclusion keep watch on each others expectations in the relationship for this is the value of your relationship.
The responsibility, likeness and beauty of human kind made God the son give away his kingship in heaven to restore His relationship with us.
              Investigation team

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